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Chillin in Nagpur...


Monday November 29, 2004, 2:19pm

Derek had a rare day off yesterday, so we went off to adventure around the city. We started by heading for a man-made lake, or tank or... I dunno, we never got to it. Derek's been there before though, and apparently it's the place that everyone was taking their Ganesh statues recently and dumping them in the water, according to the traditional celebration that was taking place at the time. On our way I spotted a little altar down a lane and suggested that we go have a look. I'm a big fan of lanes & alleys, and this one proved to be a fine example, and as even in Vancouver, offered an interesting look into the local community life that one doesn't often get from the front. Anyway, just as we got to the end of a long straight stretch and were going to hang a left, some older gents harkened us over to find out where we were from, etc. We entertained them by answering some questions in response to almost unintelligible questions - they spoke less than a half-dozen english words, and we speak about the same of Hindi. As it turned out one of them had been drinking, and was quite hammered. Through a series of non-communications he indicated that he wanted to know where we were going, and through more non-communications we indicated god only knows what. After 5 - 10 minutes of this sort of thing a large crowd had gathered: some ~20 kids, teens, men & women... Well it felt like a large crowd in the confines of the rather small lane we were in. You see, here in Nagpur there are apparently almost NO non-indians ever, and so we become a very huge source of curiosity. Things were getting a little out of hand so we decided we'd best graciously bid them all adieu, and take off. Easier said than done, we wound up being followed and... harrassed, pestered, I dunno what the term would be, but suffice it to say that most of the crowd went with us including the drunkard. Crowds beget crowds. We got back on the main road, but after another 10 minutes of walking it became clear that things were not going to improve on their own. The drunk fellow would ride his bike 100' ahead and stop and wait and when we caught up would go on and on about something we couldn't understand at all. Doctor something, hands over eyes something, 'no no' something, don't go something, dead body something, an indication to follow him the way we were already going... and of course all the kids were still all around us, and more people would come over to see what the commotion was.

We decided at that point to turn around and head for home as things only seemed to be getting more crazy, and we really just wanted to be left alone. After walking back home for 10 minutes much of the crowd had drifted away, tho there were still some waiting further ahead, and behind and slowly keeping up. Some kids approached again and indicated that there were a couple of men that were going to follow us home, and another kid, a young girl, who seemed to be saying that her uncle would like us to visit his house, and we should head over there. We finally hopped into a motor-rickshaw in order to outrun them all, which we did.

They had all been friendly enough, but... as I said later, a swarm of friendly people is still a swarm.

After a while we hopped out of the rickshaw and continued on our way. We headed to a very busy shopping area... many long streets of shops spilling out onto the road, and tons of people milling around doing their thing. We made our way down to the end of the 'shopping area' to where there were some key-cutters, and got a couple spare keys cut for Derek. (They turned out not to work.) Then we went off wandering around and seeing the sights. I spotted a large stadium, and upon seeing that the gate was open, suggested that we go in and check in out. Derek was a little wary I think, what with the success of my earlier bright idea, but this turned out to be much more pleasant, and offered some great views of the surrounding areas from the top of the bleachers. Down below on the field were groups playing football (soccer), cricket, and a few people jogging around. Having had our fun there we went on to a tasty dinner, a shopping mall, and then caught another rickshaw home. All good.

Now I'm starting to wonder what to do next. Derek is leaving Nagpur soon to meet his g/f in Mumbai (Bombay), and then they're going to want some time alone, so I've got to come up with something to do until ~Dec 20 when I plan to hit Delhi again to meet my old Punjabi teacher who's invited me to a week-long Sikh wedding to take place there in Delhi, and then head north to the Punjab with her after that.

We'll see... hmmmm... India... what to do...

dharma

November 29, 2004 | 4:19 AM Comments  0 comments

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ajay78 Ajay Kamalakaran
November 29, 2004 | 6:00 AM
Nagpur??
An India trip isn't for everyone. Just be careful. It can be the best or worst trip of your life or both.

Have Fun

Cheers,
Ajay
jwolford John Wolford
November 29, 2004 | 10:23 AM
What to do?
So you've got 20 days, eh! Here are some ideas:
1. Sit a course. On Metta day you'll meet lots of ppl who would love to have you visit them etc.
2. Kick back & relax, do ppl watching
3. Make a few friends your age & hang out with them. You might find them at a school/university, a church, some shop somewhere, etc.
4. Make a few friends of any age etc etc.
5. Eat in. And since you don't have a suite, that means eating over at ppl's houses.
6. Go see some of the "big sights", traditional greatness, etc

Back on the topic of getting ripped off: when in india, the closest i came to being ripped off seriously, was in Jaipur, i was walking from A to B and when i got into some relatively small streets/alleys i found myself in the midst of some young adults who seemed WAY to happy to see me, and i got an uncomfortable feeling. They invited me in, and i didn't want to, so i didn't. Then they invited me to have tea with them, and i instantly got the feeling that the tea could be drugged, and i could wake up somewhere nearby with nothing left. I passed on it politely, told them maybe later on, and left. WHO KNOWS. My feelings could have been off base, or the might have been bang on, and i knew that at the time, and was way happier being safe/cautious about it.

Happy travels bro!
jw
Maitreyi Maitreyi Doshi
November 29, 2004 | 12:38 PM

U r so lucky u r in India... i miss india so much. See at least is so much warmer there.

There is tons to do in Mumbai -
get a lonely planet guide and check it out they have good stuff.

Go to Rythum house, book shops, coffe shopes... fashion stree, Colaba, the beach... check out the latest Hindi movies (they can be a bit to much but its an experience) they have come out with some good ones.
Mumbai has tones of museums, gallries - Prince of Whales museum, Jhanghir art gallry etc.

Go to Elephants Caves

Get a copy of the newspaper probably times of India and look out for things going on. There are theater productions.

If you have a lot of time on your hands you can also go trecking in some of the hills between Pune and Mumbia. Lonavala and Khandala have some good trecking trails.

You can go to Mahabaleshwar and Mathran and chill out there for a weekend. You can get buses from Dadar that will take you there.
Maitreyi Maitreyi Doshi
November 29, 2004 | 12:47 PM

go to fountain they have some really good books that you can buy on the streets for cheap.
Piggyshirleypiggy Lim
December 2, 2004 | 11:51 PM
Eat as Much as you Can!
Oh mi goodness, you are in India, i am gonna throw an egg on your head, if you got nothing to do there!!! Just kidding, ^^ Keep everyone updated about your soul-searching trip.

*I would try all the food in Nagpur, ^^

Regards,Shirley McSalad and her Tomato Friends
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